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Author: Thembi Terry Zulu

​The one thing that is taking up most of my mental space is the anxiety of what happens now? Something is wrong, and I know its wrong but I can’t seem to stop it or change it and I am tired of failing at trying...

​Somebody recently told me that I sell dreams on social media. She implied that my online identity is far superior to my real life. I was thoroughly offended. Now I wish I could live online all the time. When it comes to my virtual identity, I...

My creativity is the one thing that I compare myself with others over. I never want to be mediocre or below standard when it comes to my creativity. Being creative is how I make my money. I need to stay ahead of the curve. See...

​I have an inferiority complex when it comes to how I relate with other people. And this often leads to people trampling all over me because I have placed them in a position where they feel like they are better than me. When it comes to...

I gave a friend of mine bad advice and I feel like if I hadn't, then maybe she'd still be alive today. I was young and naive. I saw the world in black and white. Things were either wrong or they were right. You were good...

​My best friend's mother can't stand the sight of me and I do not understand why. Years ago, I got into it with my father and he asked me to leave his house, which I did. When that happened, my best friend's parents took me in...

​I have failed to do right by me in many areas of my life. I keep letting myself down and selling myself short. I am the thing that's holding me back from the happiness I quest for and the love that I deserve. I know exactly...

​If you knew me, you’d know that I hate her and you’d judge me for it but I don’t care. I hate her. There are people in life that are protected by society. For example, you cannot be mad at God, the Pope or the dead....

​I am greedy for closure, that is why I am unable to heal from disappointment. I am a control freak and I freak when things do not go my way. When I do not understand something, I cannot let it go. From human behaviour to a...