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Author: Thembi Terry Zulu

​You weren’t there and I still cannot get over it. I needed you and you were not there. I had to be there for me until I got tired of being there for me. The void you left, let people come and go in my...

​When I look in the mirror, I don’t really know what I’m looking at. The obvious answer is, “Duh, you’re looking at yourself,” but I haven’t a clue who I am and that’s the beginning of my problem. As the year draws to a close,...

Doing the blogging challenge correctly should have instilled a new habit of writing everyday. It takes 21 days to create a new habit but I am cheating (technically.) I draft them before hand and publish them on their respective days. The aim is still being...

Who determines the definition of toxic in relationships? Different people need different things. What’s good for me might not work for the gander. Humans are getting very creative in their self-destructive tendencies. We are broken and we need help. The idea of what love is...

I am all for living with your partner before the two of you decide to get married but are strongly considering it. You know how before you complete your degree they send you to a year of on-the-job learning? Well, cohabiting is the same just...

Dating while parenting is difficult, especially for women. In most instances, mothers are the ones that have custody of the children while the father of the child is restricted to weekly visitations. Giving him more time and opportunity to have a vibrant dating life. Women...

I am a child born out of a matrimonial home. I didn’t suffer at the hands of a step parent. I had an amazing step-dad, he is the only dad I ever knew. My siblings and I get along fine but it was far from...

I should have included myself in this list cause I take bomb pictures but y’all would accuse me of rigging. When I started taking an interest in personal branding, creating an online image was of interest to me. I have been dying to have my...