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I have taken up a new hobby in Mindfulness Colouring. Mindfulness colouring is like meditation, sort of. While you colour, you focus only on what you are doing there and then and cease to think about the future or anything else. Which is great because most...

Ever been in such a dark space that when you day dream you can hear people giving eulogies at your funeral? I haven’t felt alive in a very long time. I don’t know where in my life a part of me died but I haven’t been able...

Girls get touched on inappropriately more than you think. It was just shocking that for Ariana Grande it happened live in HD by a leader of the church. In the Kombi Some commuter omnibuses are smaller than others. You could have the displeasure being squashed next to...

Being an adult is a stress. Let’s not get into how stressful it is trying to adult in the Zimbabwean economy. What is stress? If you have to ask then you’ve probably never experienced it. Or you’ve misdiagnosed it as mental illness or anger management issues. Stress is the...

When I first heard that Boity was going into rap I was skeptical TBH. I was like oh my gosh, it’s Paris Hilton’s musical career all over again. Imagine being able to come for your ex and his protégé. Two birds, one stone. Too much was...

People do stupid things when they are high off of dopamine and I am of no exception. They wanted me to write a jingle for a client and because I had never written one I had to go over to the other company so that the...

Your marriage is falling apart and he is thinking about leaving you. That’s the big secret. I understand the pain that you must be going through I really do and here’s a couple more things that he isn’t going to tell you but you need to hear....

Moving from Bulawayo to Harare was a strategic career move. Harare is where the money's at. Actually Harare is where everything and everyone is at. Except my family members. I don't have family in Harare. So every time I move up there I go through...

So people were all cut up about ProKid's death until they heard where exactly he was when he died. ProKid is a South African vernac rapper. His stuff was decent if you're into that sorta thing. I was there for it. Bhampa and Sekele were my...

During the unhealthiest phase of my life, I went through hell. Life is a rollercoaster, it goes up, it goes down and throws you all around. I used to think that I had bad luck and that I was cursed. The things that I went through...

Fear Won't Let Me Try Something New Have you ever been so afraid to fail that you'd rather not make an attempt in the first place? That's the kind of fear that I have when it comes to business ideas. I will keep meditating on why...

Would you marry a divorcee? If we were both coming from a previous then maybe I'd consider it but fresh as I'm is? It's not going to happen. There was a time when all the men that I liked seemed to get married. And I was bitter....

What do you find most attractive in a man? No, I wasn't going to say money but money is definitely number 2. I thought I knew exactly what I wanted in a man. I’d been writing that checklist ever since I started watching romantic comedies. That list...

What inspires a woman to hide a bulging baby bump? Quite recently I watched Busiswa and Cardi B in music videos trying very hard to hide their baby bumps and I was like its so awkward and hard to watch. Especially for Busiswa, it was such...

What’s your worst fear as a woman? If this is it, please relinquish your woman hood and go join another species. With the pay gap debate, FGM, #MenAreTrash, unsafe abortions, #MeToo and abuse all rife in this life game and all you are worried about is a...

By now we’ve all seen the video that went viral of Chisi lower 6th girls singing a song. Even as a non-Shona speaker I could tell that that wasn’t going to end well especially on video. Anyway, its happened now we discuss. Ever had a toddler...

Whether you know it or you don’t we’ve all been cheated on. But how we deal with it is what differentiates the jail birds from the love birds. Once you find out that you’re being cheated on, should it stress you and make your hair...

Yup! You read that right. Does it make me a bad person? In the eyes of a broke man yes it probably does. I’ve blogged about my love language being money before and I am ready to make it my first language. Have I dated...

Ever had somebody betray your trust? Where they came out and told a story that they had no right to tell? Imagine being homosexual and somebody dragging you out of the closet before you are ready. This is basically what happened to Babes Wodumo. We...

Have you ever been so in love that it defies all reason? That love that is irrational, wild, rebellious and vicious. Where your partner is perfection and can do not wrong. The love that has you curving other men ruthlessly and any compliment that isn’t...