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Thembi Terry's Blog

​My best friend's mother can't stand the sight of me and I do not understand why. Years ago, I got into it with my father and he asked me to leave his house, which I did. When that happened, my best friend's parents took me in...

​I have failed to do right by me in many areas of my life. I keep letting myself down and selling myself short. I am the thing that's holding me back from the happiness I quest for and the love that I deserve. I know exactly...

​If you knew me, you’d know that I hate her and you’d judge me for it but I don’t care. I hate her. There are people in life that are protected by society. For example, you cannot be mad at God, the Pope or the dead....

​I am greedy for closure, that is why I am unable to heal from disappointment. I am a control freak and I freak when things do not go my way. When I do not understand something, I cannot let it go. From human behaviour to a...

​You weren’t there and I still cannot get over it. I needed you and you were not there. I had to be there for me until I got tired of being there for me. The void you left, let people come and go in my...

​When I look in the mirror, I don’t really know what I’m looking at. The obvious answer is, “Duh, you’re looking at yourself,” but I haven’t a clue who I am and that’s the beginning of my problem. As the year draws to a close,...

Doing the blogging challenge correctly should have instilled a new habit of writing everyday. It takes 21 days to create a new habit but I am cheating (technically.) I draft them before hand and publish them on their respective days. The aim is still being...

Who determines the definition of toxic in relationships? Different people need different things. What’s good for me might not work for the gander. Humans are getting very creative in their self-destructive tendencies. We are broken and we need help. The idea of what love is...

I am all for living with your partner before the two of you decide to get married but are strongly considering it. You know how before you complete your degree they send you to a year of on-the-job learning? Well, cohabiting is the same just...