Love & Life

Why They’re Sleeping With Your Husband
Why They’re Sleeping With Your Husband

I watched a video of a wife beating up her husband’s mistress. I couldn’t make out some of the Shona but there was a hammer, pair of scissors and the wife’s kid who also joined in on the assault on camera. Goes to show the calibre of woman that does this sorta thing. I went through the comments section below…

I’ll Take Your Man!
I’ll Take Your Man!

This blog post is for my kleptomaniacs who have sticky fingers for other people’s husbands. I’m not judging, I know nothing about your relationships and thus I’m not allowed to have an opinion. What I do have, however, is a playlist of my favourite I’ll take your man songs. 1. Salt n Pepa – I’ll take your man I first…

We Live & Breathe Among Rapists
We Live & Breathe Among Rapists

What if you discovered today that your father is a rapist? You can’t even imagine it, it’s too bad to be true and yet for some people it’s a reality. The man you know as daddy is someone else’s Diabolos. Thembi how do you know for sure? Because no man is an island! We all have relatives in this wonderful…

You’re Not Fooling Anyone
You’re Not Fooling Anyone

You thought the most stubborn thing is a donkey that’s been taken to the river and won’t drink? Clearly you’ve never met a young girl that’s cocksure that she is in love. (I used the word cock on purpose.) Our mothers and sisters have seen it all. The brocode has never changed and it’s passed on from generation to generation.…

I’ll Never Be Quiet! Loud and Proud
I’ll Never Be Quiet! Loud and Proud

I had a boy tell me to shut up not once but twice this week and it had me seething. And here’s why, since I was a child too many people would try to govern what came out of my mouth and it felt like I had a knack for saying the wrong things. I’ve come to accept that my…

He Doesn’t Complete Me
He Doesn’t Complete Me

I’ve been seeing someone for a while now and it hit me, hard, that he doesn’t complete me. I mean how could he complete me, isn’t he the one with the missing rib? I am no one’s saving grace. Ariana Grande is not responsible for Mac Miller’s death. Ariana Grande is not responsible for Pete Davidson’s depression. Women are not…

You Don’t Love Your Mom?
You Don’t Love Your Mom?

Mother’s’ Day is coming up and not everybody will be celebrating. Ehe obvious https://t.co/nguuVzxbpn — tashah (@tashahhk) December 26, 2018 Other people don’t love their mothers. This is scandalous borderline blasphemous but it happens and we need to discuss these matters that we’d rather refrain from. There are people that were deprived of a mother’s love growing up. Life happens…

Okay, We Need To Stop With The Killer Butts
Okay, We Need To Stop With The Killer Butts

Oh my gosh, Becky look at her butt! When the butt cushion phase came I let it slide. I just thought its a silly fad surely people would regain their senses. And it seems to have worn itself out of fashion. I started thinking, why would women buy these things in the first place? Truth is, it’s because we have…

Being a Mom Isn’t for Every Womb-an
Being a Mom Isn’t for Every Womb-an

Just because you have legs, it doesn’t mean you’re a runner. Most people have brains but they choose not to use them, so why do we force women to have kids if they don’t want This isn’t a post about abortion so calm down. (It’s on the way though, my creativity is fertile.) If a woman decides that her womb…

I Wasn’t Ready To Be A Step-Mother, So I Left
I Wasn’t Ready To Be A Step-Mother, So I Left

Becoming a step-parent isn’t for everyone and I for one, wasn’t about to take on this responsibility. I left. I don’t have kids of my own yet and it’s something I’d like in future. He had kids already and was hinting that they were enough. Staying would have meant relinquishing my dream of having biological children and I couldn’t deny…

I’ve Been Stupid, But Never This Stupid
I’ve Been Stupid, But Never This Stupid

If you had to choose between marriage and money what would you choose? We all know what I’d choose. Money over everything unless that marriage is into money then in that case I’d choose marriage. Relationships are a delicate balancing act of compromise and sacrifices. This hits women a whole lot harder cause they have to worry about being an…

I Can’t Believe What I Did For Love
I Can’t Believe What I Did For Love

I finally found true love! The god of Ciara’s love life had mercy on me. Everybody knows all about relationships. Everywhere you look you’ll find relationship advice and if you go on Twitter, you’ll find the worst relationship advice. Its awful, right up there with advice from Steve Harvey. Okay, now you know where not to look for advice but…

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