Weave weevils are evil

Turns out we live in a world where weaves are a life goal. I don’t know if its the country bumpkin in me or the poverty spirit but I just have not been attracted to that type of lifestyle. I am genuinely happiest when my hair is short and natural (mfushwa.) But in the land of the ignorant, they can’t being to comprehend that some people are happier with natural hair, to them kinky hair is a sign of poverty. I really hate the hassle of having extensions in my hair, it’s absurd. I don’t need extensions to look better unlike you. I’d refer these uneducated, superficial women to research that has been done about the damage that is being done by relaxer chemicals to our scalps, but why bother, firstly, they can’t read and secondly they don’t have brains that we can worry about being polluted by relaxer.

Here’s my official statement about these girls, you are so uncomfortable in your own skin that you need all these trimmings to validate you. But lemme teach you something real quick, when someone says, “nice weave” it doesn’t equate to “you’re beautiful” a weave can be nice whilst its in the packet. You outchea in camouflage that is fake nails, lashes and war paint (make-up) because genuinely beauty is a struggle for you and that’s ok honey do you just don’t do it close to me.

There’ll be plenty of time to pamper myself but I understand that right now I am in a place of sowing and a time to reap shall come. Sacrifices must be made right now so that my future can be secured. I get that you have an expensive weave but how will that help you five years down the line? All the money that I get right now is going towards my investments and I’m guaranteed that at least 75% of them will pay out. Anyways, collect all your old weaves, you’ll need them in the future maybe to sew a blanket with the long thread of regret that is your life.

PS: I’m 25 and I have my name on more than just a relationship status.

9 Responses
  • Sharon Nyatanga
    May 12, 2015

    you just convinced me to pull through with what i have been thinking all alone. I love my weaves,extensions and braids but I want to do a one month challenge in Nov to have my natural hair, to love it,and to feel beautiful in it. Thanks xx

    • TheComplicatxn
      May 22, 2015

      Its my pleasure honey. Try the phrophro challenge. They teach you how to care for your natural hair.

  • tayatheheir
    May 12, 2015

    I wish my gf wld read this

    • TheComplicatxn
      May 22, 2015

      I can make that happen. Accidentally add her to a Whatsapp group 😂😂😂

  • cookies
    May 13, 2015

    kinda liked that about you. you all grown up. pursue your dreams and keep blogging. never miss a set!

  • TatendaRobin
    May 27, 2015

    I dunno why, I disagree that extensions in my hair or weave or how i alter my appearance with my hair is that deep philosophically, in fact I disagree with your train of thought, but that is exactly why i love this blog, its so individualistic you really mean what you say and you there standing in a weave shop with mfushwa, you go girl, besides your features suit the short hair and kinky curls,

    some of us have 5-heads for days..id take a fringe and bangs any-day

    • TheComplicatxn
      May 27, 2015

      Thanks honey! I dont mind what another man’s cup of tea is, just dont impose it on me and we’ll be fine

      • TatendaRobin
        May 27, 2015

        I like your cup of tea because it is so honestly you, thats to be commended

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