This blog has been a long time coming. Tea anyone? I wanted to write this because you know, I like women’s issues and I have found some glitches within myself that I have been working on and I am impressed…
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Thembi Terry Whande
God puts people in our lives for a reason and a season. When that purpose has passed, that person must move on to their next season and so should you. We feel stuck because God sent destiny helpers to our…
I was once called the Swiss Army Knife in the WordPress Bulawayo WhatsApp group. I knew what a Swiss Army Knife was but I didn’t understand the connection. Mbeke explained to me how I had built up a reputation for…
If Chinamwari was a song this would be it. Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion said some things that vaTete are saving for our wedding days. I understand and advocate for sexual liberation of women but there’s other issues…
Most of the things we know, we learnt from our parents. Some of the fears that we have, we inherited them from our parents. Parenting is literally code for programming. I mean if you could look like a photocopy of…
I think before the house on the hill, this is the one thing I have wanted to do more than anything else. A friend of mine said if I shed the excess weight, she’d pay for the first round of…
Imagine genuinely being in love with someone and you’re just a painkiller to them. I came across ‘painkiller’ as an adjective when I was contemplating dating a divorcee. I was told that divorcees aren’t interested in getting remarried. They just…
I find social media exhausting. For a long time I used it as a time filler or a source of entertainment. I’d go to bed tired and yet having accomplished absolutely nothing towards my dreams and goals. Being a keyboard…
Sometimes I open my WhatsApp and find 120+ unopened messages and I feel overwhelmed and close the app. But because some of you have an inflated sense of self, you start thinking that I am ignoring you. Well I am,…
We shouldn’t have to set precautionary measures for our daughters. Teach your male relatives to STOP RAPING WOMEN. Now that all protocol has been observed let’s get into it. “You should’ve never went to his house at night.. what did…
