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I listened to that audio by ZimLive in shock and horror and I asked myself but why? The lady on the other end of the phone was stunning. I could see why he made that call and made his request….

Can you believe it? I’m a whole wife! Of course you can. I’ve been enamored with Mr W but it’s still so surreal to me. I see my ring sometimes and it’s like but yeah I married this man. Getting…

You want to propose but you aren’t sure how to do it? Well, if I was a man I’d be antsy as well because that gender has innate commitment issues. Here are some things to consider and all the best…

In the lyrics of Kirk Franklin, “Pain was the plan.”I write for myself and the people around me who weren’t raised by their biological parent who is still out there somewhere just ghosting, swooping in and out of your life…

I have tried explaining what a High Value Woman is and I lost all steam each time. You can Google it when you can or just simply watch YouTube videos on the subject matter. Bottomline is, when you become a…

I have noticed that every time I set my boundaries people (male and female) are bitter about it like I have said something dull like #AllLivesMatter. Whenever you speak up to check someone on something, watch how they react. Whether…

This blog has been a long time coming. Tea anyone? I wanted to write this because you know, I like women’s issues and I have found some glitches within myself that I have been working on and I am impressed…

God puts people in our lives for a reason and a season. When that purpose has passed, that person must move on to their next season and so should you. We feel stuck because God sent destiny helpers to our…

  If Chinamwari was a song this would be it. Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion said some things that vaTete are saving for our wedding days. I understand and advocate for sexual liberation of women but there’s other issues…