Still on Blood and Water, I get how annoying those meddling kids are but they wouldn’t have to meddle if you’d been upfront with them from the very start. I know when I was in my Puleng era it wasn’t…
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Still on Blood and Water, I get how annoying those meddling kids are but they wouldn’t have to meddle if you’d been upfront with them from the very start. I know when I was in my Puleng era it wasn’t…
I was watching the new season of Blood and Water (long story). All I could think of was how self righteous we are as kids at the shortcomings of our parents. We judged the drunk uncle, the return soldier…
What made us believe that shame and humiliation are a motivating factor? If I’m failing at something, what makes you think being ridiculed about it will make everything better? As I’m working through my complex, multi-layered issues, at the root…
I’ve bumped into adverts from people looking for house help in Facebook groups and sometimes they are brave enough to even state how much they are offering. These posts get so much engagement because why are we paying our help…
Everyone knows someone who locks food away as if it’s some title deed to a mining claim. The kitchen will be empty and you’ll see food items coming from the direction of the bedroom area. Me, personally, I then reject…
It’s been a couple of years since I went to the Mandela Washington Fellowship for Young African Leaders. The blog posts I wrote about my experience there still drive a lot of traffic to my blog. So today I’m gonna…
The girlies have been asking why the men they built never stuck around when they made it big. Well, firstly, who was the wrong one in Acrimony? Now that you’re emotionally hyped up, let me ask you another question. Did…
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Happy New Year! I’m so glad you made it to 2023! We’ve just made it past the festive season, which was a time for family and togetherness. I bumped into funny content trolling the father’s side of the family and…
I have never walked into a hair salon and randomly picked a hairdresser to do my hair. Every person that has done my hair has been a referral. When I see someone with a hairstyle that I like, I ask…