Kikky BadAss got married and her bride price was a major hot topic online. Among the jesters and trolls were women who aren’t married yet and some who aren’t even dating.
— Youth Village Zim (@YouthVillageZW) December 27, 2019
There was also uproar when the former pornstar Mia Khalifa got married and I had to explain how one man’s meat is another man’s poison. If marrying a pornstar isn’t for you then fantastic but don’t joust people who have chosen that life for themselves. Talking about, “Ain’t no way I can turn a stripper to a housewife,” and yet Offset married Cardi B.
Mia Khalifa an ex-porn star, with hundreds of sex tapes all over the internet is getting married.
My virgin self can’t even get a text back. 😢 pic.twitter.com/g09Lo24ULi
— Princess Ife❤️ (@ife_luv12) March 14, 2019
YOU ARE NOT FALLING BEHIND.
Maybe your friends/former classmates have already reached certain milestones, but it doesn’t mean you’re behind. There’s not some sort of timeline that you’re supposed to be keeping up with. There isn’t a place you should be right now.
— Tsotlhe di apere tshiamo. 🕯️ (@refiloe_tshiamo) October 27, 2019
Some guy told me I wasn’t marriage material. He literally said, if he had to choose between Lady Tshawe and I, he’d pick Lady Tshawe. I wanted to be bitter about it until I heard his reason. At that point I was like, you wouldn’t marry me but dude, I wouldn’t even date you.
Here’s what I figured out, wife material is subjective. What suitor A is looking for is different from Suitor B. It’s the same in fashion, some can afford Cashmere whereas some can only afford Polyester. There’s levels to it. Find a fabric that doesn’t make you itch and the rest is none of their business.
List of nollywood actresses that are over 40 and are not married. https://t.co/GZyQCWo4WS
— Faridah (@damiscoco_) October 8, 2019
I love to watch Snakes in the City on Nat Geo Wild. Would I date a guy who catches snakes for a living, nope. But Siouxsie goes everywhere with her man catching snakes and she is fatally allergic to the Cobra venom. That was her choice. There are so many men who I feel aren’t husband material and yet they are married, such as wife beaters, dead beats, losers, freeloaders but someone loved them enough to marry them.
My mom and her sister just gisted me about a family friend and what I've just heard has ruined my night. I'm so pissed.
This lady, Faith used to make my hair when I was way younger.
She started in a make-shift wooden shed and attracted customers around the neighborhood.
— Chivie (@Chivie__) December 7, 2018
Ultimately, I can’t have an opinion cause I’m not married. Maybe he was right, I’m not wife material but I am a woman of steel.
It's great that you guys are considering Hulisani's feelings in Psyfo's engagement asking how he'd want to marry someone so soon when he was with Hulisani for years but didn't.
But then. What if Hulisani didn't want to get married herself?
— Fancy Face (@MsCougar21) August 10, 2019