
In Peace and In Pieces
I started my #SheHeals journey in December last year, I am well aware that we are now in April but healing isn’t something you want…

Insecurities and Fears
I am insecure about everything. I’m always scared that everybody is trying to hurt me You cannot get me out of defense mode. It rarely…

Dear Old Thembi Terry
It’s not you, its them. You wont believe me because you think you’re all that’s wrong with the world and that’s not your fault. The…

The Things I Hate About Myself
You know that feeling when you confidently volunteer an answer and it’s wrong? That is the story of my life. I have been humiliated a…

I Can’t Getchu Outta My Head
The one thing that is taking up most of my mental space is the anxiety of what happens now? Something is wrong, and I know…

Social Media And My Identity
Somebody recently told me that I sell dreams on social media. She implied that my online identity is far superior to my real life. I…

I Compare Myself To Others Sometimes
My creativity is the one thing that I compare myself with others over. I never want to be mediocre or below standard when it comes…

I Played Small…But Never Again
I have an inferiority complex when it comes to how I relate with other people. And this often leads to people trampling all over me…

I Haven’t Forgiven Myself
I gave a friend of mine bad advice and I feel like if I hadn’t, then maybe she’d still be alive today. I was young…

You Are Causing Me Pain
My best friend’s mother can’t stand the sight of me and I do not understand why. Years ago, I got into it with my father…