
Treating Myself Better
Treating myself better is an inside job and out. It means I need to do some soul searching on so many levels and start to…

From Failure to Blessing
If I was a Disney princess my fairytale would be a story of how my whole life was a failure that was turned into a…

Three Things I Need To Work On
I dislike being referred to as a work in progress but it is what it is. I am on the verge of turning 30 and…

What Does Vulnerability Mean To Me?
“Vulnerability is the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.“ I am in…

In Peace and In Pieces
I started my #SheHeals journey in December last year, I am well aware that we are now in April but healing isn’t something you want…

Insecurities and Fears
I am insecure about everything. I’m always scared that everybody is trying to hurt me You cannot get me out of defense mode. It rarely…

Dear Old Thembi Terry
It’s not you, its them. You wont believe me because you think you’re all that’s wrong with the world and that’s not your fault. The…

The Things I Hate About Myself
You know that feeling when you confidently volunteer an answer and it’s wrong? That is the story of my life. I have been humiliated a…

I Can’t Getchu Outta My Head
The one thing that is taking up most of my mental space is the anxiety of what happens now? Something is wrong, and I know…

Social Media And My Identity
Somebody recently told me that I sell dreams on social media. She implied that my online identity is far superior to my real life. I…