Every story has a sensei that guides the main character through the struggle and helps them to their purpose. Even Jesus had the holy spirit. I have Thembe Khumalo. Do you guys have relationship mentors? People who are in healthy…
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Thembi Terry Whande
I’ve been seeing someone for a while now and it hit me, hard, that he doesn’t complete me. I mean how could he complete me, isn’t he the one with the missing rib? I am no one’s saving grace. Ariana…
Mother’s’ Day is coming up and not everybody will be celebrating. https://twitter.com/tashahhk/status/1077830611405062145 Other people don’t love their mothers. This is scandalous borderline blasphemous but it happens and we need to discuss these matters that we’d rather refrain from. There are…
Blogging is something I see myself doing for the rest of my life. It’s inevitable that it will change and evolve with time and learning is the only thing that will take me to the top and keep me there….
Oh my gosh, Becky look at her butt! When the butt cushion phase came I let it slide. I just thought its a silly fad surely people would regain their senses. And it seems to have worn itself out of…
Just because you have legs, it doesn’t mean you’re a runner. Most people have brains but they choose not to use them, so why do we force women to have kids if they don’t want This isn’t a post about…
Becoming a step-parent isn’t for everyone and I for one, wasn’t about to take on this responsibility. I left. I don’t have kids of my own yet and it’s something I’d like in future. He had kids already and was…
If you had to choose between marriage and money what would you choose? We all know what I’d choose. Money over everything unless that marriage is into money then in that case I’d choose marriage. Relationships are a delicate balancing…
In preparation for #Booked&Busy2019 I have taken initiative and listed some of the expectations that I have when I am booked for a speaking gig. To get paid I didn’t understand this when my mentor was trying to teach me…
I finally found true love! The god of Ciara’s love life had mercy on me. Everybody knows all about relationships. Everywhere you look you’ll find relationship advice and if you go on Twitter, you’ll find the worst relationship advice. Its…