It’s Because You Fornic*te With the Help
God puts people in our lives for a reason and a season. When that purpose has passed, that person must move on to their next…
Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion’s WAP is PROBLEMATIC!
If Chinamwari was a song this would be it. Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion said some things that vaTete are saving for our…
Parents groomed us for toxic relationships
Most of the things we know, we learnt from our parents. Some of the fears that we have, we inherited them from our parents. Parenting…
I want to bleach my skin
I think before the house on the hill, this is the one thing I have wanted to do more than anything else. A friend of…
Strange Ways in Which You’re Using Other People’s Kids
Imagine genuinely being in love with someone and you’re just a painkiller to them. I came across ‘painkiller’ as an adjective when I was contemplating…
My Phone Usage Policy and Why I Don’t Respond
I find social media exhausting. For a long time I used it as a time filler or a source of entertainment. I’d go to bed…
I don’t care who he is don’t go to his house
We shouldn’t have to set precautionary measures for our daughters. Teach your male relatives to STOP RAPING WOMEN. Now that all protocol has been observed…
Why I won’t leave him for you
I’ve been listening to that Msizkay, Awakhiwe and Mzoe7 Ngawuzw’ umoya wami song and I got to thinking about all the people who have expressed…
Money Matters When it Comes to Men
Love is a lot of things, the one thing it isn’t about is deprivation. If you’ve ever spoken to a good or decent parent, they…
Don’t walk on eggshells around me
Most of my friendships deteriorated not because we fell out of love but because it felt like I was walking on thin ice and they…