I don’t care who he is don’t go to his house
We shouldn’t have to set precautionary measures for our daughters. Teach your male relatives to STOP RAPING WOMEN. Now that all protocol has been observed…
Why I won’t leave him for you
I’ve been listening to that Msizkay, Awakhiwe and Mzoe7 Ngawuzw’ umoya wami song and I got to thinking about all the people who have expressed…
Money Matters When it Comes to Men
Love is a lot of things, the one thing it isn’t about is deprivation. If you’ve ever spoken to a good or decent parent, they…
Don’t walk on eggshells around me
Most of my friendships deteriorated not because we fell out of love but because it felt like I was walking on thin ice and they…
I’ve Got A Thing for the Buddie Beatz Music App
If you know me, you know that I never go anywhere without my phone and my headphones. I have a playlist for every chore and…
Once you give it away, it’s not yours
Two Christmases ago I wanted to get my Samsung phone fixed so that I could give my little sister the Huawei since she barely had…
Your kids aren’t a reboot of your life
I hear people a lot talking about, “I wanna give my kids a life I never had growing up.” This has been a problematic ideology…
Don’t Assume Yourself into a Relationship
You can’t ever ask a man, “What are we?” It’s too much pressure they say. Just go with the flow they suggest. Just have fun…
There are Things You Can’t Love Out of Him
Do you have that one hang-up that no matter how hard you work on it or how deep you introspect it just seems like you…
Put this down for your life to pick up
When you’ve worked really hard and things still don’t work out it’s heartbreaking and devastating. You followed the rules, put in the work and the…