I Got Married!
Can you believe it? I’m a whole wife! Of course you can. I’ve been enamored with Mr W but it’s still so surreal to me….
Should Marriage Proposals be Public or Private?
You want to propose but you aren’t sure how to do it? Well, if I was a man I’d be antsy as well because that…
Why Daddy Didn’t Stick Around
In the lyrics of Kirk Franklin, “Pain was the plan.”I write for myself and the people around me who weren’t raised by their biological parent…
Are you Attracting Bad Men? Here’s How to Fix it.
I have tried explaining what a High Value Woman is and I lost all steam each time. You can Google it when you can or…
Why Y’all Bitter When Black Girls Have Boundaries?
I have noticed that every time I set my boundaries people (male and female) are bitter about it like I have said something dull like…
The Real Reason Why You Hate Her
This blog has been a long time coming. Tea anyone? I wanted to write this because you know, I like women’s issues and I have…
It’s Because You Fornic*te With the Help
God puts people in our lives for a reason and a season. When that purpose has passed, that person must move on to their next…
You’d Better Have My Money!
I was once called the Swiss Army Knife in the WordPress Bulawayo WhatsApp group. I knew what a Swiss Army Knife was but I didn’t…
Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion’s WAP is PROBLEMATIC!
If Chinamwari was a song this would be it. Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion said some things that vaTete are saving for our…
Parents groomed us for toxic relationships
Most of the things we know, we learnt from our parents. Some of the fears that we have, we inherited them from our parents. Parenting…